Funerals for 14 killed in San Bernardino massacre set to begin

Flowers are delivered for a memorial service for Yvette Velasco, 27, on Thursday, Dec. 10, 2015 in Covina, Calif. Velasco died in a mass shooting Wednesday, Dec. 2, in San Bernardino, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong)

COVINA — On the morning of Dec. 2, Yvette Velasco got dressed up and flat-ironed her hair. It was an important day: The 27-year-old was going to receive a gold badge officially recognizing her as a San Bernardino County health inspector at a holiday work event.

The world now knows what happened: Syed Farook and his wife, Tashfeen Malik, stormed into the gathering, opening fire on Farook’s colleagues. Velasco and 13 others were killed in what the FBI is investigating as an act of terrorism.

One week and a day after the massacre, Velasco will be remembered Thursday in an outdoor funeral, at a spot on a hill chosen by her three older sisters and parents in remembrance of her love of nature. The ceremony will mark the start of a grim procession expected to take place throughout Southern California over the next week: about a dozen memorials, funerals and burials for those killed in the attack.

“She was more than our sister,” Velasco’s sister Erica Porteous, 37, said, choking up. “She was our soul mate.”

For the tight-knit Velasco family, the last week has felt like “a living nightmare,” Porteous said.

Velasco was the baby in the family, the one her sisters all remember excitedly bringing home from the hospital and watching grow up. None of them knew she was going to be at the Inland Regional Center that morning. She didn’t like to call attention to herself and only casually mentioned a badge ceremony to her mother, her sisters said.

The only hint they had that she was at a work gathering came from a Snapchat message she sent her sister Adriana Velasco, 38. The message had a photo of her hand wrapped around a Starbucks cup and a few words mentioning a holiday party.

“Lucky,” Adriana Velasco replied.

Less than an hour later, the family started hearing reports of a shooting in San Bernardino. Genevieve Tovar, 32, sent her sisters and parents a message telling them to be careful. The shooters were still on the loose.

Porteous turned on the television and realized the building under siege was often used for county meetings. She sent a text message to a friend, asking if she knew which department was gathering there that day.

The reply sparked concern: Environmental health.

Velasco had recently passed the exam to become a state registered environmental health specialist. She had spent the last five years working her way up at the San Bernardino County Department of Public Health.

She started off in vector control, collecting mosquitoes hovering near backyard pools and dirty puddles for disease testing, and eventually became an environmental health specialist, a job that sent her around the county inspecting restaurants.

It was a job she was passionate about: Even at home, she would chide her sisters when they left out food for too long.

When the family learned it was Velasco’s department meeting at the center, they began to panic. Her father and a brother-in-law went to every hospital receiving shooting victims. Her sisters called every hospital in the region. The next morning, Velasco’s father, a retired California Highway Patrol lieutenant, called his daughters upstairs and told them to pray.

“We ask God to give us the strength to face whatever is in store for us,” he said.

The week that followed has brought days of shock and a list of somber preparations they didn’t imagine making for a little sister: arranging the funeral and picking photos of a smiling Velasco at birthdays and weddings for a reception slideshow.

“Sometimes I don’t even feel like getting up,” Porteous said. “I still can’t fully accept it.”

More details have come to light about who killed Velasco and her co-workers. Farook and Malik had embraced radical Islamic ideology for at least two years, FBI Director James Comey said Wednesday. What exactly motivated them and why they chose to open fire on a work event is under investigation.

Velasco’s sisters feel certain they know what she would want in the aftermath of the attack.

“She would want to promote peace,” Tovar said.

Velasco’s parents and sisters met Thursday with the FBI and county officials. They gave her family the badge she had been waiting to receive.

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Friends of Yvette Velasco embrace as they arrive for a memorial services, Thursday, Dec. 10, 2015 in Covina, Calif. Velasco died in a mass shooting Wednesday, Dec. 2, in San Bernardino, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong)

Friends of Yvette Velasco embrace as they arrive for a memorial services, Thursday, Dec. 10, 2015 in Covina, Calif. Velasco died in a mass shooting Wednesday, Dec. 2, in San Bernardino, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong)

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